Homeschool Guide

Free homeschool guide · Updated October 2026

Homeschooling in New Jersey: Your Friendly Guide

How to start, the types of homeschooling, popular curricula and a quick quiz, what kids learn at each age, local co-ops, and homeschool law for NJ, NY and PA with sample letters.

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Is homeschooling right for your family?

If you're even a little curious about homeschooling, you're in the right place. Maybe your child isn't thriving in a traditional classroom. Maybe your family wants more flexibility, more time together, or an education shaped around who your child actually is. Whatever brought you here, take a breath. Thousands of ordinary families start homeschooling every year, and you don't need to be a certified teacher or have it all figured out.

At Altered Course, we believe kids don't have to fit the mold, and neither does their education. Homeschooling isn't about recreating school at your kitchen table. It's about learning differently, celebrating the way your child grows, and gathering with a community that gets it.

And you don't have to do it alone. Co-ops, classes, clubs, and other local families are everywhere once you know where to look, and right here in Sussex County, Altered Course offers daytime classes, social clubs, and enrichment built for homeschool families. Use this guide to get your footing, then come find your people.

Types of homeschooling

There's no one right way to homeschool. Most families land somewhere in the middle, or blend a few styles as their kids grow.

ClassicalLearning in three stages (facts, then logic, then self-expression), language-rich and structured.Fits families who want rigor and a time-tested framework.
Charlotte Mason"Living books" instead of textbooks, nature study, narration, and short, focused lessons.Fits families who love reading and the outdoors.
Montessori-styleHands-on materials, child-led pace, a carefully prepared environment.Fits younger children and self-directed learners.
Unit studiesOne theme (say, oceans or ancient Egypt) explored across every subject at once.Fits families teaching multiple ages together.
Unschooling / interest-ledLearning driven by the child's own curiosity, with no fixed curriculum.Fits families who want maximum flexibility.
EclecticMix and match the best of several approaches and curricula.How most real-world homeschoolers actually do it.
School-at-homeA boxed, laid-out curriculum that mirrors a traditional school day.Fits families who want everything planned, especially at first.
Online / virtual / hybridOnline programs, or a mix of online lessons and in-person classes and co-ops.Fits working parents and older, independent students.

Not sure which fits? That's normal, and you don't have to pick perfectly on day one. The curriculum quiz below is a good next step.

Popular homeschool curricula

The number of options is overwhelming at first. The good news: you can switch anytime, and most families blend or change. These are starting points, not endorsements. Explore a few and see what clicks for your child.

CurriculumBest known forApproach
The Good and the BeautifulOpen-and-go, beautiful language arts; low-cost and free PDFsFaith-based
Gather RoundUnit studies that teach all your kids together across subjectsFaith-based
MasterbooksSimple, open-and-go, Bible-based; easy for new homeschoolersFaith-based
SonlightLiterature-based ("living books"), fully boxed and plannedFaith-based
AbekaTraditional and rigorous, textbooks plus optional video lessonsFaith-based
BJU PressTraditional with strong video courses and supportFaith-based
Teaching TextbooksSelf-grading math kids can do on their own; a parent favoriteSecular
Time4LearningOnline, self-paced, full curriculum kids can do independentlySecular
OutschoolThousands of live online classes on almost any topicSecular
Saxon MathIncremental, thorough math many families swear bySecular
Khan AcademyFree online lessons and practice; a great supplementSecular
IXLOnline skill practice that adapts to your childSecular
Lexia Core5Adaptive reading program; a boost for early or struggling readersSecular

Where to buy. Many faith-based curricula, including Saxon Math, are available in one place at Christianbook.com, or directly from each publisher's site linked above. Secular programs are mostly online subscriptions.

Quick quiz: which curriculum fits?

Answer six quick questions and we'll suggest where to start.

1. How much structure do you want?

2. Faith-based or secular?

3. Teaching more than one child?

4. Your child learns best by...

5. Budget?

6. Teaching time you can give each day?

What kids learn at each age

One of the first worries new homeschoolers have is "am I doing enough?" Here's a gentle guide to what kids typically work on at each stage. In New Jersey, homeschooling is parent-directed (you are not required to follow the public-school scope and sequence), so treat this as a map, not a mandate. Kids move at their own pace, and that's the whole point.

Ages 4 to 6Play is the work. Read aloud every day, count and sort real objects, learn letters and sounds, explore nature, build, draw, sing. Formal "school" can be 30 to 60 minutes total.
Ages 7 to 10Build the core: reading fluency, writing sentences and paragraphs, arithmetic through multiplication and fractions. Add read-alouds, hands-on science, history through stories, art and movement. One to three focused hours is plenty.
Ages 11 to 13Grow independence: longer writing, pre-algebra and algebra, research projects, deeper science and history. A great age for co-ops, clubs, and classes like ours.
Ages 14 to 18Think about the road ahead: credits, transcripts, college or career goals. Outside classes, volunteering, and part-time work all count. NJ doesn't issue homeschool diplomas, so parents issue their own; keep good records.

What a homeschool day can look like

There is no single "right" schedule. Here are two honest examples.

Younger child (age 6): Breakfast and a read-aloud · 15 minutes of phonics · a short math game · outside play · a library trip or craft · free play and audiobooks. Total sit-down time: under an hour, spread across the morning.

Older child (age 11): Morning math and writing · a read-aloud or history chapter together · lunch and a break · independent reading or a project · an afternoon co-op class or activity. Most academics wrap by early afternoon, one of homeschooling's quiet perks.

Homeschool co-ops & groups near Sussex County

A co-op (short for cooperative) is a group of homeschool families who gather to learn, share teaching, and give kids friends and group activities. Some are academic, some social, some faith-based, some secular. Joining one is the best cure for the "are we doing this alone?" feeling.

How to find a co-op near you:

  • Start with the directory below, then search Facebook for "[your town or county] homeschool." Most local groups organize there and post meetups, classes, and co-op openings.
  • Ask at your local library; many host homeschool meetups and know the active groups.
  • Visit a park day or field trip before committing. Most groups welcome visitors.

Statewide organizations

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New York
Pennsylvania
  • CHAPStatewide support, a county-by-county group finder and an annual convention. Christian.
  • PHAANonprofit diploma-granting organization for PA homeschoolers.

Local co-ops and groups by county

Sussex County, NJ
  • Abide in Christ Homeschool CollaborativeLower Sussex, near the Morris border. Academic co-op, Pre-K to high school, parents volunteer. Christian.
  • Groups in Warren, Morris and Passaic below (TLC, Knowlton Fine Arts, NJHSA) also welcome Sussex families.
Warren County, NJ
Morris County, NJ
Passaic County, NJ
Bergen County, NJ
Orange County, NY
Pike County, PA

Listings checked October 2026. Groups change often, so confirm details, openings and requirements directly with each group. Altered Course isn't affiliated with these groups.

Run a co-op or group? Text us at (862) 314-0905 to be listed. Need a place to meet? Our space in Sussex is available to rent by the hour for co-op days, classes and park-day backups. See venue rentals.

Homeschool law: how to start in New Jersey

Every state sets its own homeschool rules, from "no notice required" to "notify, test, and keep records." New Jersey is one of the easiest states to homeschool.

  • No notice required. You don't have to register with the state or your district, file paperwork, or ask permission to homeschool in NJ.
  • No testing or portfolio required. NJ does not mandate standardized testing or record submission for homeschoolers.
  • Your job: provide an education "academically equivalent" to what's offered in public school. That's the standard, and it's parent-directed.

If your child is currently enrolled in public school, send the district a brief written withdrawal letter so they don't mark your child truant. You don't need their approval. You're simply informing them.

If your child has never been enrolled (for example, they're reaching school age now), you don't need to do anything at all. Just begin.

Sample NJ withdrawal letter

[Date]

Dear [Principal / Superintendent name],

This letter is to inform you that, effective [date], I am withdrawing my child, [child's full name, date of birth], from [school name] to provide home instruction as permitted under New Jersey law. Please remove [child's name] from your enrollment records. Thank you.

Sincerely,
[Your name, address, signature]

Keep a copy for your records, and send it by a method you can confirm was received (email with a read receipt, or certified mail).

In New York or Pennsylvania? See the New York and Pennsylvania sections below. For other states, check your state's Department of Education or HSLDA's state-by-state laws. Nothing on this page is legal advice; always confirm current rules before you make decisions.

Homeschool law: how to start in New York

Serving families in Orange County and across the Hudson Valley? New York asks more of homeschool families than New Jersey does, but it's very doable once you know the steps. No teaching credentials are required.

  • Ages: 6 to 16 (some districts, including New York City, require attendance until 17).
  • Letter of intent: send one to your district superintendent by July 1 each year, or within 14 days of starting mid-year.
  • Home instruction plan (IHIP): the district sends you a form within 10 business days. Return it within 4 weeks (or by August 15, whichever is later) listing your child's grade, the materials for each subject, your quarterly report dates, and who is teaching.
  • Hours: 900 a year for grades 1 to 6 and 990 for grades 7 to 12. Keep attendance records.
  • Subjects: set by grade. For grades 1 to 6 that's reading, writing, spelling, arithmetic, English, science, geography, US history, health, music, visual arts and PE, plus US and New York history before grade 9.
  • Quarterly reports: four a year, each with hours, material covered, and a grade or short narrative for each subject.
  • Annual assessment: a standardized test or a written narrative, due with the fourth report. A narrative is allowed any year in grades 1 to 3 and every other year in grades 4 to 8. Grades 9 to 12 test every year.
  • Diplomas: New York doesn't issue diplomas for home instruction. For college, students can request a letter of "substantial equivalency" from the superintendent, or use routes like 24 college credits or a High School Equivalency diploma.

If your child is currently enrolled, your letter of intent (sent within 14 days of starting) is the filing the state requires. Many families also let the school know in writing.

Sample NY letter of intent

[Date]

[Superintendent's name], Superintendent
[School district name]
[Address]

Dear [Superintendent's name],

Please accept this letter as our notice of intent to provide home instruction for the [2026-2027] school year, under Section 100.10 of the Regulations of the Commissioner of Education, for [child's full name], grade [X].

[If starting mid-year: Home instruction will begin on [date]. Please also accept this as notice of withdrawal from [school name], effective [date].]

Please send the Individualized Home Instruction Plan (IHIP) form and a copy of Section 100.10 to the address below.

Sincerely,
[Parent/guardian name, address, phone and email]

Official sources: NY regulation 100.10 · NYSED home instruction Q&A

Homeschool law: how to start in Pennsylvania

For families in Pike County and northeast PA. Pennsylvania has more paperwork than New Jersey, and a yearly portfolio review, but thousands of families do it every year.

  • Ages: 6 to 18. Filing for kindergarten is optional.
  • Who can teach: a parent or guardian with a high school diploma or equivalent.
  • Affidavit: file a notarized affidavit (or an unsworn declaration, no notary needed) with your district superintendent before you start, then by August 1 each year. Your program begins once you file; no approval is needed.
  • Days: 180 days, or 900 hours (K to 6) / 990 hours (7 to 12).
  • Subjects: for K to 6: English (spelling, reading, writing), arithmetic, science, geography, civics, US and PA history, health, PE, music, art and safety education. Grades 7 to 12 add algebra, geometry, literature, composition and world history.
  • Portfolio: a running log of reading materials plus work samples. In grades 3, 5 and 8 it also includes reading and math scores from an approved standardized test (a parent may not give the test).
  • Yearly evaluation: a qualified evaluator (not you or your spouse) reviews the portfolio and talks with your child, then certifies the year. That certification goes to the superintendent by June 30.
  • Diplomas: two state-recognized options: a diploma issued by the home education supervisor on the PDE form, or one from a PDE-recognized diploma-granting organization.

If your child is currently enrolled, file your affidavit with the superintendent before your child stops attending. There's no separate state withdrawal form, so many families also let the school know in writing.

Get the official forms: the PA Department of Education posts sample affidavits and unsworn declarations, plus a full guide, on its Home Education page.

Homeschool FAQ

Is homeschooling legal in New Jersey?

Yes. New Jersey allows parents to educate their children at home. There's no registration, notice, testing, or portfolio requirement; the education must be academically equivalent to what's offered in public school.

How do I withdraw my child from public school in NJ?

Send the school or district a short written letter saying you're withdrawing your child to provide home instruction, and keep a copy. You don't need the district's approval. A sample letter is on this page.

What is the best homeschool curriculum?

The best curriculum is the one that fits your child and your family. Popular choices include The Good and the Beautiful, Gather Round, Masterbooks, Sonlight, Abeka, BJU Press, Teaching Textbooks, Time4Learning, Outschool, Saxon Math, Khan Academy, IXL, and Lexia Core5. Take the quiz on this page for a starting point.

Where can homeschoolers find classes and friends in Sussex County, NJ?

Local co-ops, library meetups, and enrichment centers like Altered Course in Sussex, NJ offer daytime classes and social clubs built for homeschool families.

Stay connected

Homeschooling is better with people around you, and so is Altered Course. We share class openings, homeschool meetups, party ideas, market days, and real moments from our space.

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Questions? Text us at (862) 314-0905. We're happy to help you get started, whether or not you ever set foot in our building. If this guide helped you, the best thank-you is a follow and a share with another family who's homeschool-curious.

What we believe, and an invitation

Altered Course exists on a simple idea: kids learn best when learning looks different. Hands-on, joyful, social, and built around who they actually are. We think families deserve a welcoming place to gather, try new things, and belong, without the pressure of a traditional classroom. That's the heart of Learn Differently. Celebrate Differently. Gather More.

We put real value on flexibility for families, warmth over formality, creativity in everything, and a community that includes homeschoolers, after-schoolers, and everyone in between.

Here's something we don't say often enough: a place like this could exist in your town, too. We've built the programs, the systems, and the know-how for a space that supports homeschool families, hosts unforgettable birthday parties, and brings a community together, and we believe the model can travel. If you've ever dreamed of opening something like Altered Course where you live, we'd love to hear from you. Text (862) 314-0905 or contact us, and let's talk.